A Giggling, Neighborly Armful of Jesus’ SHARED Love!

July 10, 2008

I am sure you can imagine, because of humanity’s inclusion in the life of God the Father, Son and Spirit, that after 8 days of being away from my family I was eagerly “BURNING” with Jesus love to see my immediate family members again! The anticipation only grew and grew as we spoke on the phone daily to express how much we missed, loved and liked each other, and couldn’t wait to see each other again!

I get a special thrill when my youngest daughter, Autumn, calls me “out of the blue” to ask me when I am coming home and has to know the exact time, place and manner so that she can hold me accountable! On this trip, she got a special chuckle out my response that I would be flying home but that it might take a long, long, time because my arms would get plenty tired, and I would need to make many stops! Oh the genuine and spontaneous laughter of the Holy Spirit expressing itself in a young girl at her father’s corny joke! Can there be anything more innocent, refreshing and beautiful?! Hardly! Ha-Ha! 🙂 I KNOW there is a God who laughs!!

Because of plane delays, more stops than usual, or just plain slowness on my part, I don’t always make it home exactly when I say I am going to be there. Autumn will ring my phone often to express her anticipation and sadness, and we are so included in each other in Jesus that I KNOW before looking at the phone that it is her calling me! Talk about being “hooked up”! Even though I am not late on purpose, I have to admit loving her anticipation AND disappointment as both of those emotions scream and shout much love into my soul!! Ha-Ha! Oh, Yes! To be missed and wanted (don’t misunderstand, my wife and other child express the same things, but I am trying to get to a special point in this story about Autumn:-) )

On this particular day, I was right on time. On the last phone call before I got on the return flight home, I had told Autumn that I should be home around 7:30pm. As I pulled the van into my neighborhood I saw that I was going to be right on time as promised, and looking back, boy am I glad I was! Just as I expected, and hoped, Autumn was in the yard and the smiles on her face and mine were beaming as bright as the sun! It was what I DIDN’T expect that really thrilled and overwhelmed me! Three of Autumn’s neighborhood friends were smiling, clapping, jumping and dancing with her at my return home!

No kidding! Autumn’s friends were as happy as she was! They were jumping up and down so excitedly in the driveway that I had to honk the horn for their safety! They were literally swooping on and around the van as I was still driving! They could not contain their excitement! I am not joking when I say that each one of them were looking at me as if I was their personal daddy coming home from a long trip away, and each shouting as gloriously!! There were quite a few people out in the neighborhood and they could all see and HEAR, if not feel, this overwhelming love and welcome!

I couldn’t wait to open the door and especially hug my daughter, but it wasn’t to be! Her three girlfriends had beat Autumn to the door, and as I opened it, I got bumrushed with a giggling, neighborly armful of Jesus love in the warm hugs of those young ladies! They were ALL saying things like “Daddy!!” “We Love You!”, “We Missed You!!”. (Okay. My eyes are watering again – give me  sec. to recoup)! Alright I’m back! 🙂 Three of the girls had so crowded out the other, and I was so caught up in the inclusive love of Jesus, that I shouted aloud in the Spirit, “Okay, we have to get everyone in the circle this hug to be complete!” (wonder where I get talk like that?! Hmmmm?!) Looking back, I realize that Autumn was not sad at all at being on the far side of the circle, but was thrilled to see her friends sharing in it! I remember this same thing occuring with my dad and others but that will be for another blog post!

Believe me when I say, it had to be Autumn’s shared love, COMING FROM JESUS, that was the result of all of this…..because….I hardly know the other three girls at all!!! I mean REALLY KNOW them! They are around often enough for me to know their names, but I honestly do not relate with them even an hour in any given week, and usually I am saying things like, “Time to go home”, “Autumn can’t come out until she finishes her chores!”, “Make sure you all pick up all of those sticks out of the yard when you’re done playing with them!”, or “Ya’ll be quiet down there while I record this commercial, and if you don’t quiet down you’re going to have to go outside!” It really is the sad truth!

But that is what makes this real life story all the more shocking! With that kind of small interaction, and sometimes negative relationship, what can account for those girls expressing the EXACT same love and sentiment toward me, as Autumn showed? There is only one, fundamental and satisfactory explanation to me. The Father, Son and Spirit love and like me, and each of those children and everyone else! And through the special relationship the Father has with Autumn, in Jesus, she shared in his feelings for me in such a mysterious and inclusive way, that it rubbed off on all of her friends, and ended up as a shower of love on me!!

I am sure that while I was gone, Autumn talked to her friends MUCH about how she missed me, and how long it had been since I had been gone, and her fear that I might not come back home (she’s a little RELATIONAL worrier!) She is so in union and open with her friends that I believe they began to feel what she felt until they felt the exact same way after 8 days of my absence. Interestingly, yes, each of these young ladies (except my daughter) lacks a father in the home, so it would have been even easier for them to pick up on and yearn with my daughters exact yearnings for the person they so dearly miss in their own life!

This story has evoked such a permanent and lasting good memory that I long for it to happen again! And right when I began to sit under a cloud of negative thinking, saying, “I’ll bet this kind of awesome thing will probably never happen to me again”, I remember the last words I heard before I entered the house that day after receiving those hugs. It was uttered by one of the girls who was not my daughter, and she said emphatically and seriously:

“Don’t you ever leave us for that long again!!!”

I think she has convinced me that I can look forward to much more of this if I am ever gone that long again! 🙂  Thank you for the hope and reality of an eternity of love with you and everyone Jesus!!